How do you know?

How do you know you're home? And, really, is it home? Is home where you live? Or is home where your heart is? Either way, we are "home." How do I know?

The temperature in my car, in the shade, reads this:




The landscape, while driving, looks like this:





My son climbs our date palm in the backyard to collect this sweet middle eastern fruit (sweet being a relative term):





And when I turn on Disney at 12 noon, this is what I hear:
(Disclaimer - I pulled this off of YouTube after spending hours trying to get my own video to upload, only to fail every single time. Sigh.)





So, yes. We are home for now. But if you want to know how I really feel, watch this. Thanks Katie, for this gift:

Two Years in Doha

My how time flies.

So it's not been two actual calendar years. What I love about being an expat in the desert is that a "year" is actually a school year. Nine months. Not 12. Summers and Christmases are spent at home, where we now have a house to call our own.

But it has been two years. Half-way done, inshallah. Which brings me back to today's post.

I have been asked many times how I like it over here. There are things I love. There are things I "love" and yes, despite the harshness of the word, there are things I hate. So here they are in no particular order:

• I hate that there is so much poverty in the world that families are routinely separated so that one of them can come to places like Doha and earn a decent living.


• I hate that my idea of a decent living and theirs is so radically different.

• I love that I can read the Arabic alpahbet.

• I hate that there are no Child Restraint laws in Qatar and that I routinely see toddlers bouncing around the back seat of cars on the road, or worse, babies being held in the front seat. MAKES ME CRAZY.


• I "love" that come June there is no cold water from the tap. It's so hot outside that it heats the water pipes.


• I "love" that despite the Hardees, KFC or mini-market, not actually being drive-thrus, that all the locals have to do is honk their horn repeatedly and they will receive curbside service.


• I love that slowly but surely I'm learning to live in a metric world.

• I hate that I will always associate white Toyotal Land Cruisers with arrogant Arab drivers following behind you a millimeter from your back bumper flashing his light in impatience for you to get OUT OF THE WAY!

• I love that after two years here I dress more conservatively than I did when I first arrived.


• I love that when I go to the states I notice and am somehow amazed at how skimpily (is that a word?) American women will dress.


• I "love" how vendors here, while not understanding a word you say when asking a question will nod their heads and say "No problem. No problem" just to make a sale.


• I "love" that I live in a world where "Muster Point" and "Assembly Point" signs are common. "Toto, I don't think we are in Kansas anymore."
  
  
  

  

  
  
  
  

• I love Skype. I love my Blackberry. Both of which keep me connected to my friends and family back home.
  

• I hate that there is no mail delivery to my house.


• I hate that my internet browsing is censored.


• I love that gas is cheap and I don't have to pump it.


• I "love" that now I have to actually remind myself to turn off the car at the gas pump for safety reasons. I love that my friend from Egypt not only doesn't turn her car off, she leaves it in DRIVE with her foot on the brake.
• I "love" that I routinely park in parking lots that look like this:

• I LOVE that I have not once since I've been here ever worried about my or my family's personal safety, regardless of where I've been in the city or the time of day.
  
• I love that we live in a beautiful green compound










• and am thankful for not living in a concrete-walled compound.
  
  
  
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• I love that Doha finally has a new highway which has improved my outlook on driving tremendously.
• I love that I now regularly use words like "inshallah" "soccer pitch" and "no worries."
• I love that you can take the girl out of Texas but you can't take Texas out of the girl when I use the word "y'all" in front of Europeans without giving it a thought.
• I love that my kids see veiled women and robed men and don't think twice about religious or politcal differences and will grow up appreciating the Muslim religion for what it is and not as a terrorist movement.
• I hate saying goodbye. Both to new friends moving onwards from Doha and to old friends back home each time I leave.
• I hate that I haven't blogged more about Doha and told more of those daily stories that seem to define life in Doha.

And finally, I hate that this experience is not appreciated and wondered at daily as we are busy doing normal family things, but love that in the years ahead we as a family will look back on this move as one of the best things we could have done for our children and family.

Ma salama for now.

Sharon

The dangers of tile floors and unprotected devices...

Can you see this? This is my iTouch AFTER being dropped on a hard tile floor. The glass is shattered. It's broken. It's dead. It's useless.

No longer can I feed my fish while patiently trying to breed that magic 7th fish. I can't check the weather. I can't watch my iTunes shows in the middle of the night when I can't sleep. I can't spend hours playing mah jongg refusing to go on to the next layout until I mastered the one at hand. And no longer can I check my email at all hours of the day without sitting down at the laptop (oh, yes I can, my Blackberry took care of that.)

Can it be fixed? We'll see. But I miss my friend.

Not to be outdone,

It was John's turn today for Poetry Cafe. Enjoy.

A Poem, By Scott

If I Were In Charge of the World

If I were in charge of the world,

I'd cancel homework

And school and also

Chores.

If I were in charge of the world,

There'd be super powers

Robots to serve you

Your own cook

Candy is the main course in restaurants and

You get a free iphone.

If I were in charge of the world,

You wouldn't have sister, Barcelona team

You wouldn't have bullies

You wouldn't have rules

Or any vegatables.

If I were in charge of the world

You would rule every planet and

No gravity and ice cream is healthy.

And a person who sometimes forgot to brush his teeth

and sometimes forgot to clean his room

Would still be allowed to be

In charge of the world.

It's that time of year

When all grades in the elementary school put on their annual concert. Originally Scott told me that his costume required no shirt. Woo hoo for me! He was so embarrased. But in the end all he required was a plain blue t-shirt and a grass skirt, which I didn't even have to provide.

Anyway, it was cute. It was funny. Blah blah blah. You all don't care. But what I love about this picture, is Scott, front and center, looking like he's posing. All the other kids dutifully performing the required hand motions. All of them, of course, except Scott.

I love him.

Apparently, I am the BEST MOM EVER!

Or maybe they just wanted to wish me Happy Birthday. But whatever. These were the best presents a mother could ask for. (Well, except the overt reference to my age. But I'll overlook that).